To define the basic nature of both men and women firstly without the media hype and political correctness is essential to understanding where the conflict of origins and artificial political interjections have arisen between the sexes. The contrary roles men and women play in society today have much to do with most of the social problems we are seeing in the modern supposedly civilized world.
How did man and woman start out? What were the organic roles that originated and for thousands of years defined the identities of and duties of each sex in the family and the society? The question being how do the hard wired behaviors genetically woven into our being now cause basic internal conflicts today that have disrupted the workplace, the home, marriage, and even the military when it comes to the interaction of man and woman?
These problems have even been addressed by authors seeking to untangle the misunderstandings between men and women in marriage and try to make subtle differences in the vocabulary and intentions of the two sexes easier for each to recognize and hopefully more peacefully and happily co-exist together. One might recall “Women are From Venus Men are From Mars” as being a popular book that grappled with this subject. This book indeed explored the lack of interpretation between men and women and that fact that women see and understand differently than men the very same problem or point being made in communication.
The essential half
The nature of most women since time began. Women were the mother, the home maker, the child bearer, and her strong instinct of nesting ensured that she kept the dwelling clean and organized. With that instinct also came a stronger will for self-preservation than even men. This has often created an unconscious self-importance often making a man feel as though he is not on her list of priorities However, this allowed for better family conditions so that meals and childcare could be undertaken. The woman possessed a strong maternal instinct and was weaker than the man in order to be a caregiver, a mother, the one who ensured the species survived through reproduction and nurturing.
The less appreciated half
The man’s role was as a hunter gatherer. It was his job to bring home food, to gather material needed for the home, and trade with other hunter gatherers for goods needed for the dwelling. This specialized type of duty was given to man because of the gifts he possessed such as strength, endurance, awareness of the environment, and survival skills. He had to be able to fight if necessary to fend off enemies if needed. This was his job and he had specific skills for the task at hand. He was the provider, the guardian, and the leader. For thousands of years this successful pattern of behavior defined the family structure of the human species!
Today there is chaos in society. Not mayhem as in total war, but still, there is much unnecessary friction and loss of the family as a result of social engineering and what is deemed modern Feminism which is a complete departure from thousands of years of successful family oriented behavior! It is a war against the basic instincts of women and men. It has been promulgated by politics and trickery! David Rockefeller once told Aaron Russo that one of the biggest schemes ever orchestrated by the Global Elites was to convince women it was their right to possess a job in the workplace! Hollywood promotes it, the government promotes it, and people become programmed!
It was their right to make money just like the man! It was fascist and barbaric for the woman to remain in the role of the traditional mother figure and raise children! But, why was this sudden propaganda introduced into society? As Rockefeller stated, the government sought to double its intake of income tax by getting the women of the household into the workplace and therefore be able to extract double the taxes from the household. Women were tricked into leaving the household for the workplace, giving up their role as dedicated mother, and lose a good deal of her income in taxes while children were left to walk home from school alone, or seek outside daycare until Mom or Dad got off work to pick them up! This presented a major transformation in the household and the casualties created by this upheaval in roles has changed society forever. Why should a woman who has chosen to be a dedicated mother have to be made to feel as though she has sacrificed her life, her future, and her identity thanks to the pressure by Feminists to conform? This is the end result. Conflict!
Politics have created a rift in a once successful family strategy that worked and was part of human programming for centuries! We are now reaping the seeds of discontent and conflicts between genders now! Politics have sought to draw a further wedge between traditional family definition now with transgender identity and the LGBTQ interjecting more confusion, more ridiculous options to further create confusion for the family, for individual identity, for the workplace, and even for the military! For some who buy into this artificially interjected false narrative an aggressive and hostile aversion to the traditional household has become the stuff of rights issues and litigation in the courts as radical government gets involved! The social engineering behind all of this has a mission-to disrupt society as we know it!
Red Flag # 7) any woman or man who has bought into the leftist political narrative will have sharp disagreements with anyone from a conservative background who respects Biblical principle and Constitutional government. For that matter, they may well conflict with those who were raised in a conventional home environment where Mom and dad had different but defining roles. These disagreements will not simply end as an agreement to disagree. They will likely threaten the marriage and make it untenable. So this red flag should be carefully monitored and considered before entering a relationship. Political affinity in this day and age is a strong emotional factor today more than ever. It should be considered a powerful red flag! It would seem for the Democrat Party voter that a dysfunctional upbringing or radical left driven family philosophy is an absolute requirement in order for them to gain support for their platform!
We must realize that this new transformation in our society is a product of an intentional wedge that has been driven between the families for political purpose. The Communists sought to completely disrupt the normal family structure, home, and role in society. Today we have seen it come to fruition in America just as it had been implemented in country after country targeted for socialist overthrow! The Bolsheviks refined this strategy over the Czar ruled Russia before exporting that social nightmare to the rest of the world!
Red Flag # 8) perhaps this is the most important difference that defines men and women and how each sex perceives the world and each other! In a nutshell the very nature of women one can define as that of a little girl, easily hurt, short sighted, emotional, in many cases immature, childlike, and demanding immediate gratification. If these concerns are not met swiftly problems will follow quickly. Women are not prone to be patient and see the consequences of their actions down the road. They want their needs recognized and addressed now or at least feel that such is attitude is justified.
Many who choose divorce or an affair are hardly considering the consequences of their actions either now or in the future as their decisions are based upon emotion! This is, ultimately, what the man faces with the largest percentage of women’s conduct. Of course they will rationalize this short sighted behavior as necessary and unavoidable! Hence, we see many women who willingly divorced at a time that was probably not in their best interests but they just couldn’t help themselves! Elderly women with no partner because they did not want to remarry, drove men away, or figured they were better off alone are growing in numbers!
Red Flag # 9) the self-righteous woman. Any man who makes less money than his female counterpart is in for a rough ride! Even though most men have been saddled with the majority of the financial responsibility as an accepted duty it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot the woman will definitely make the man feel inadequate and refuse to see the value of his contributions such as mechanical repair on the cars, home repair, and other heavy duty or shared duties as cooking and child care as having the equivalent of salary value and will ridicule him to no end over it! An important red flag is most definitely wage disparity!
Red Flag # 10) testing you! If anything demonstrates more the differences in the nature of men and women it is this! I ask you, what guy would be so mistrustful that he would have a buddy of his come on to his girlfriend or wife to see if she is faithful? Girls, women, and even married women will do this routinely to test their spouse! It seems immature at the least and but is quite common among women!
Red Flag # 11 Girl Friend Envy
Another such female specific behavior is even more vindictive and it is something men would never consider but this does truly separate the difference in men and women’s behavior. How many men who are buddies would attempt to sabotage another friend’s successful relationship? Guys simply do not actively engage in this type of ruthless competition, but I have seen a group of women time and time again who don’t have a relationship or are in a miserable one try and sabotage the happy relationship of their girlfriend because they are jealous of her happiness! Can you envision men doing this to each other? No! But, I have seen women trying to intentionally talk their girlfriend out of a relationship she in actively involved in because she is happy while her counterparts are lonely or disillusioned in their lives! This is very illuminating insight into the nature of a woman’s psyche! If there's any factor that could break up your relationship with your woman if she has a bunch of friends, they sure can!
Submitted for your edification! Unfortunately, this is not the Twilight Zone. It is the sad reality men face in today’s modern society!