The basic fallacy of love is that you always have to love a specific person. This is one of the most significant things about all human being. There love is always for somebody. The moment you address your love, you destroy it. It is like saying I will only breath for you. And when you are not there, how can I breathe? Love should be like breathing. It should just be a quality to you. Wherever you are or whosoever you are with. Even if you are alone, love goes on overflowing you. It is not a question of being in love with someone, it is a question of being love itself. People are frustrated with their love experiences not because there is something wrong with love... They narrow down love to such a point that the ocean of love cannot remain there. You cannot try to contain the ocean. Love is your whole being. Love is your godliness quality. The question of the object of love does not arise. With your wife you love your wife. With your children you love your children. With your friends you love your friends. With the trees you love the trees. YOU ARE LOVE. Love is not dependent on the object, but a radiation of your subject. A radiation of your soul. The more vast the radiation, the greater your soul is. You have lived under a common fallacy of all human beings. And now you are asking if I’m able to love you. Just asking “am I able to become loved” is a fallacy. When you are in my presence you need not think of loving me. Otherwise you have not come out of your ordinary fallacy’s. Here you have to learn just being loving. Of course your love will reach to me too. And to others too. It will be a vibe surrounding you spreading all over. And if so many people are simply broadcasting their love, the whole place becomes blissful. And the whole area is filled with a new kind of energy, and no one is at a loss. Because on each single person so many peoples love is sovereign. Has love brought me to the point where happiness in love does not happen anymore? Life is nothing but an opportunity for love to blossom. If you are alive, the opportunity is there. To the last breath. You may have missed your own life. Just the last breath, if you can be love, at the very last moment you are alive, have not missed anything. Because a single moment of pure love is equal to the whole eternity of love. It should not be just directed to a certain thing, but to all things.

Once you have pure love for something or someone, there is no going back. You cannot love someone one day, hate them when they do something against you, then go back to loving them once you’ve kissed and made-up. It doesn’t work like that. Once pure love enters your heart, it will always be there. The problem is people think they have found pure love only when they have found a soul mate or a lover. If that person had no lover, then he wouldn’t feel love at all. And that means he does not know what love is. You cannot search for love. You cannot reach out and grasp it. You do not possess love, love possesses you. Pure, true, honest love will go on overflowing you at every moment, whether you are alone or not. That’s when you see true beauty in every part of the world.

Love is the strongest emotion, that’s why we’re always looking for someone to direct it towards. But that can bring a lot of harm to any relationship. That’s why I direct all my love towards consciousness, towards existence itself. Towards every conscious being. It has become impossible for me to fall in love with personality because your personality is always given to you by someone else. It’s given a label by someone outside yourself. So my love is directed to the pure conscious being, without personality, as if everyone is a new born child. For me, as long as I am conscious, I have love.

When you see a beautiful woman, your mind will deceive you, and go on deceiving you. You ask yourself if you could love this person. Just by asking that question, you’ve destroyed any chance of love.

The immense beauty of love is it has no reference. Love comes from you for no reason at all. It is your sharing of the heart. It is the sharing of your song, you share your being. And sharing is so joyful. Sharing for sharing sake; for no other motive. But the love you have known in the past is not love Buddha is talking about. Your love is nothing but the other side of hate. Hence your love has reference. Somebody has been beautiful to you yesterday. She was so nice and you feel great love for her. This is not love; it’s the other side of hate. Or somebody is going to be nice to you tomorrow. The way she smiles at you, the way she talks. She is going to be loving to you. And great love arises. But this is not the genuine love. This is hate disguised as love. That’s why your love can turn into hate any moment. Scratch a person at any moment, even the smallest annoyance, and love disappears; hate arises. Even so called great lovers are continuously fighting. Nagging, destructive to your very being. And people think this is love. When nothing is happening… no fighting, no quarrel, people feel empty. Is it better to be fighting then to feel empty? That’s the idea. Millions of people in the world. At least the fight keeps you engaged. It keeps you involved. And the fight makes you important. Life seems to have some meaning. Ugly meaning, but at least some meaning. Your love is not really love. True love has no reference. It thinks not of yesterday or tomorrow. True love is a spontaneous feeling of joy in you, and the sharing of it. The sovereign of it. For no other reason, for no other motive then to just share it with the world. It’s such a strong emotion that the only thing you can do is share it. The heart is so full of joy that your whole being bursts into a beautiful song.