What’s the appropriate way to calm an eight-year old who’s throwing a violent temper tantrum? Talk him down? Send him to the principal’s office? Pepper-spray him – twice?
Police in Lakewood, Colo., opted for the latter tactic to subdue Aiden Elliot after the second-grader threatened teachers and students with a piece of wooden wall trim, which he held like a knife.
“I kind of blow up a little,” the boy admitted to ABC News. “I said I’m going to kill you....”
Aidan, who is in a class for children with behavioural problems, said his teachers had put him in a corner for acting rowdy, and had called his mother. His confinement enraged him.
According to the Associated Press, when asked whether he really intended to injure anyone, Aidan responded: “A little.”
“I kind of deserved it,” he acknowledged.
Aidan’s mother Mandy Elliot said she is upset with the school, and is filing a complaint against the police.
“Why didn’t they talk to him?” she said. Or, we wonder, remove the stick from his hand? How hard can it be to disarm an 8-year-old?
“He was red, handcuffed, crying screaming how much it burned,” she said.
Ms. Elliot added that her son only acts out at school, and is never violent at home with babysitters and family members, nor is he violent at his soccer and swimming activities.
Police defended their decision, saying the situation forced them to act quickly and that no one was injured. School officials, meanwhile, told the press they’ve been seeing more elementary and pre-school students behaving violently, and are concerned about the problem.
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Ok Jude, you can dish it out but you can't take it. Fair enough. End of discussion.
Either the mother is lying or the problem is (the kids) in the classroom. Probably a combination of both. Pepper spray, as taught to my students, is a tool for self defense, NOT a method of punishment. Often this is precisely what these police officers are taught; that it has a disciplinary application as well. The taser is often deployed in the same fashion. Police will often tase and pepper spray as a form of correctional punishment, when there is clearly no imminent threat. Seriously, how many times have we seen this done?
That boy was no danger to anyone with an officer present. The cop sprayed him in correction, not as an act of protection. This is nothing more than another tyrannical manifestation of the police state being implemented and the people being conditioned to accept it.
Ok, one question......how many of you have children? I'm just curious. How would you really feel if your 8 year old child was pepper sprayed by a cop or a teacher in school? I don't know about anyone else, but I don't want the school or some bozo cop disciplining or laying a hand on my kid, PERIOD. It is my job to raise and discipline my child and nobody elses.
I still can't believe that an 8 year old child no matter how violent he becomes, can be such a threat to the school enough for them to call the police. I look at how little my daughter still is at that age and it dumbfounds me that grown men can't restrain an 8 year old child......WTF?
And this article also mentions that the mother said that her son is never violent anywhere else but in school.....interesting to say the least.
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Projection bias, is a psychological defense mechanism whereby a person unconsciously "projects" their own attitudes, intentions, and feelings onto another. One example of this process is someone acting in a disrespectful manner, berating others, and making impertinently bold assumptions about someone elses life that they know absolutely nothing about. It is acquittal by conscience, projecting the very thing you are guilty of onto someone else; the bully claims to be bullied to protect the conscious mind from his otherwise unconscious feelings that reflect the sum of this specific compartmentalization and his own inner character as caustic and truculent.
This is synonymous to, a cheating husband that begins to suspect that because he is cheating, that his wife probably is as well. So he projects his inner guilt onto her by making unfounded accusations. What YOU have done is disrespected us, with your lofty comments and exercised every form of what you have predicated upon myself, as MY personal faults, when in reality, they are your own. There are a few words to describe this Mr. Jude. The word hypocritical comes to mind. So does, disillusioned. As does 'asshole'. Paddling is archaic and imo barbaric. Down with the Charlatans!
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