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Comment by Doc Vega on November 4, 2019 at 11:41am

James, what I've found from experience with women is that it makes no difference how much sex you gaive them either they will take all you give them and still convince themselves that they are justified in being unfaithful or simply reject you and give what they withhold from you to another, which is usually the case.If we had politically honest research they could write volumes on how women engage is relationship sabotage either consciously or unconsciously and that does not absolve men from doing the same thing, as a matter of fact, were not a lot of this a result of women carrying baggage from what men did to them things might not be so damn destined to failure!

Comment by James Roberts on November 3, 2019 at 4:51pm

Doc - You're welcome. The last three women I dated kept three or four loser guys in their orbit, perpetually. For money, gifts and work around the house if they needed it. That's a thing now, a model (some) women use to maximize their profit, without ever committing to a relationship with anyone. They were all offended and disbelieving when I told them no more dates. One called the cops on me several times, to get revenge for my breaking it off. It's discouraging. But I'll find one that appreciates being treated well, in every way, and that treats me well in return. I have a friend, my employer, who is making a project out of socializing me.

Comment by Doc Vega on November 3, 2019 at 3:02pm

James thanks for your reply. I've been married 3 times and as you said to women who were victimized when they were vulnerable long before they met me and they simply perpetuated the circle of victimization without even realizing it. Yes, it is wasted time and life not to move on. 

Comment by James Roberts on November 1, 2019 at 5:30pm

Or, to be more succinct, fuck that bitch. lol.

Comment by James Roberts on November 1, 2019 at 5:29pm

I don't think love is an illusion. Eventually, I had to come to the conclusion that, yeah, my ex had problems due to things that were done to her when she was vulnerable, but none of that justified what she did to me as an adult. One can't carry a torch for the remainder of one's life. It is a terrible waste of time. You could be out there having fun with someone, fulfilling each others' lives, so happy.