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Comment by Doc Vega on December 9, 2019 at 9:38am

James Roberts, as  usual your insights are compelling. I would like to go on record saying that I know well what kind of pain and lasting effect your doomed relationship had on you, your sense of self esteem, the pain that was unmistakable, and how hard it was to get back in the saddle again. That was tough Pal. Look up, narcissistic women as the root cause of many of these female relationship assassins who specialize in using men and dropping them like feces between their legs on a wilderness hike! Yes, men do this to women as well but for us that don't it seems we get the exact opposite level of appreciation from our mentally deficient spouses and girl friends. This something politics and faulty assumptions about women being the victim the majority of the time really suppresses the exposure of. Thanks for your comment!

Comment by James Roberts on December 7, 2019 at 12:59pm

You know what really bugs the siht out of me as to the subject of obsessive relationships? There are a couple of checklists made by people who sent decades doing serious research, interviewing people, etc. The subject of the checklists concerns what those who have underwent "alien abduction" experiences have in common. Number one on both of them is an obsessive romantic relationship, in which the emotion doesn't seem organic, and which one just can not get over, no matter what logic and reason scream in your face.

I swear to God, when the primary relationship in my life thus far went off the rails and ended, the only thing I can compare the pain to is when a surgeon made the decision to allow me to wake up from a major emergency abdominal surgery, with absolutely no painkiller, and lie there for four hours (I couldn't scream or get up because of certain other circumstances). That pain continued for over a decade.

I used to think the subjects of aliens and UFOs were kind of cool and interesting, until I started reading up on and listening to what people who interacted closely with these things (who knows what is really happening) said the traumatic consequences in their lives were.

Comment by Doc Vega on December 4, 2019 at 12:00pm

Thank you James!